The Special and Unique Feeling of Life

loveLove is a psychological sentiment which comes out like other emotional feelings like curiosity, anger etc. Through the vision of psychology, in this article, I am going to discuss two parts. The first part is about intimate love and interrelated parental and the second part is about significance and importance of love and adoration on inspiration and pair-bonding.

At the time of young age, our parents should support us with all kinds of spiritual and material foster. The most important thing is that their support should be selfless and unconditional. Otherwise, it is really hard for us to survive in this world for a longer period. Thus, it is considered that parental love is unforgettable and it is in a way similar to the intimate love as both of them are interrelated. This is the reason why we always look for the most capable and responsible guidance for our future.

We find now that our parents sometimes motivate us to know about love. I still remember my father told me that love is creativity. It’s an art of living beings. If we humans are getting love in our

Stop Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places

Stop Looking for Love in All the Wrong PlacesFrom our early teens we all have our own idea of what love is; the one thing that is not in conflict is everyone begins searching for it. Is there a method to the madness of chasing something that for many seems elusive? Are you one of those people who always seem to feel you have somehow landed or fallen for the wrong person, leaving you on the hurting end of love? There are some guidelines that do more than make sense.

1) If you don’t want a partner who drinks or parties, don’t go to a bar, nightclub or racy party to meet one. Confine your serious search to workplaces, local gatherings, restaurants and other random opportunities.

2) If cheaters don’t appeal to you, refuse to be involved with anyone who is cheating on someone else to be with you. If you attempt to fool yourself into believing they love you too much to do that, understand that is what their current partner thought. Cheaters cheat.

3) Hate deceitful people? Don’t gloss over untruthful statements your partner is

Learn the Essence of the 5 Love Languages

Love LanguagesLove is a very powerful thing and conveying the language of love is easier said than done. Are you willing to go through all that? Would you desire to learn and connect with people and set up strong and reliable linkages? Then the 5 love languages can help you along the way.

What are the 5 love languages? There many ways to express love and its beauty. The more that people learn about love, the better. The five languages consists of Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch.

Let us learn these methods one by one. For the words of affirmation, it is a way for each and every one of us to appreciate the person’s work and sacrifices. Although it is not always common for us to appreciate the hardwork of others, this trait however can help in strengthening relationships.

The second language is the acts of service. This is the type of love that promotes actions. It does not linger of passive works but on active ones. Helping your family in cleaning out the garbage, washing the car,

Love and Forgiveness Is The Most Important Piece in Improving Our Relationships With Our Loved Ones

Love and ForgivenessThe extension of Love and Forgiveness is the only path to true and lasting happiness.

In order for anyone of us to truly be happy, we have to monitor our thoughts and the projection of our feelings to the people that we are interacting with. It is in our ego’s nature to see what we are thinking and feeling in those individuals that we are interacting with. We project our inner self to our loved ones, our friends and colleagues. So, if we fill ourselves with love and compassion, this will be all that we will extend to the people that we interacting with.

The following two quotes put this whole idea in perspective: “Love alone is capable of uniting living beings in such a way as to complete and fulfill them. It alone takes them and joins them by what is deepest in themselves.” By Pierre Teilbard de Chardin

“We do not love people so much for the good they have done us, as for the good we have done them.” By Leo Tolstoy

We live in illusion that we are separate

Love and Abuse

Love and AbuseLove, what a wonderful word. A word that can bring a smile to your lips, a tear to your eyes and make your heart skip a beat. Love can bring a tear when reminiscing or a stab in your heart when you remember the pain. This one word can bring such joy and such sorrow at different times in your life.

The positive side of love brings memories of holding hands, soft kisses, shared dinners, family time, smiling children, holidays and a lifetime of fun. A fleeting moment can bring joy to your heart when reminiscing can last a lifetime. The joy of a grandmother and granddaughter playing a game, the first moment you hold your newborn, the first time you kiss a partner, the first glimpse of that special person as you reminisce over the years. Love brings us many positive situations of giving and receiving, of sharing bringing a depth to our lives like nothing else can. It brings joy, laughter, growth and experiences. It gives us the much needed push to move forward and to build.

The negative side of love brings with

Loving, Listening, Learning, To Understand As the Learned

Loving, Listening, LearningI’ve been tinkering with a definition of humility, and wonder if it’s the willingness and ability to patiently endure humiliation in the hope of a good outcome eventually.

The person embarking on humility is certainly a lover, a listener, and a learner – and their reward is to become one of the company of the learned. The learned understand:

“It is quite clear that between love and understanding there is a very close link. He who loves understands and he who understands loves. One who feels understood feels loved and one who loves feels sure of being understood.”
– Paul Tournier (1898 – 1986)

Understanding is conducive to love. If we understand someone, we can love them. If they feel understood, they can love us. Yet if we choose to love, understanding is sure more often than not to follow. And would it matter if it didn’t follow, if we were committed to love? Such a love finds its greatest contentment simply in pleasing God.

To please God is to live as the obedient – as best we can hope for, within our brokenness.

God Loves Me So Much

God LovesGod loves me so much. I can feel it when I am alone. I feel it in my laughter, I really do. In fact I feel like we are laughing together, I am never alone. He watches over me and catches me just as I fall. He cries when I do. He warns me about bad characters, all the time. However, there were those heartaches when I ignored his warnings. I actually do ignore His warnings, on occasion, and trip over myself, or really get depressed, but He helps me right back up again, almost immediately. Since I was born, perhaps even thought of, He is always there for me. When I forget, he remembers, for me. When I’m in trouble he sends help.

Sometimes when He is near I can hear beautiful music. I am so relaxed during those enchanting times, there is no where I would rather be, then with him. In the mist of what I interpret as my greatest thoughts, fears, or disappointments, He tickles me. God loves me so much.

I never laugh as

Lovin Eyes Can Never See

eyes of loveWhy is it that our sight is transformed when we are looking through the eyes of love? Is it better to see with clarity or through the lens of altered perception that love produces? What we see is influenced by the filters of our life experiences, those that cause bias and those that cause delusion. Love is the single most powerful human emotion; is it any wonder that how we see another is painted in the brightest of the color spectrum when love is the filter? Can that be beneficial in our life?

The obvious stories we all know about lying and cheating may come to mind first, all true as history writes what has transpired. If that is all there is it would be futile and dangerous to look at another with loving eyes. There has to be more… and there is. This kind of powerful emotion is the greatest motivating force in mankind. It ignites desires that focus our attention away from ourselves to something much bigger. It empowers us as we learn to trust.

End of Your Love Story

End of Your Love StoryToo bad it wasn’t a “happily and ever after”. You thought that person was your soul mate, unfortunately, the relationship just didn’t work out. So here you are broke, stuck in that fantasy.

A wonderful person such as you shouldn’t be dwelling in misery. If your friends and family have been telling you repeatedly that you deserve someone better, do them a favor and believe them. And now that you are at the moving on stage, it’s about time for you to accept and realize that it’s the end of your love story with that person. Right now you may feel that you are in a dark and lonely place but that is just all part of the detachment process. You have a wound in your heart and you are still healing. Have patience, the hurt you are feeling now will soon subside.

Hold on, it’s about to change

Keep in mind that this is not a permanent chapter of your life. Don’t you ever think that you are a failure. A broken relationship does not define you as a person. Build-up your

10 Signs That You Are In Love

Signs That You Are In LoveIt isn’t always easy to share the difference between lust and real love. You might know you have something special with your man, but you’re still sensing things away and determining predicament. But how will you know if it is truly real love?

Signs That Prove The Presence Love:

Below are the things you that might happen to you often. And the occurrence of such things proves that you are in love.

1. “This one’s special.”

If you are in love, you get started to think the one you love is exclusive. The notion is in conjunction with a failure to feel passionate passion for anybody else. Fisher and her co-workers imagine these single-mindedness results from increased degrees of central dopamine — a chemical substance involved with attention and target — in the human brain.

2. “She’s perfect.”

Individuals who are truly in love have a tendency to give attention to the positive characteristics of their loved one while overlooking his / her negative traits. They also give attention to trivial objects and events that remind them of their

Don’t Fall in Love Too Fast How to Apply the Brakes Without Derailing Your Relationship

appply the Brakes Without Derailing Your RelationshipThere is nothing wrong with falling in love quickly, really. You get to taste the feeling right when it arrived and for a moment, you are on cloud nine. The problem with this, however, is, usually, it can only last for a moment. Then after that moment of bliss comes sweeping pain, despair, depression, and all other emotions that could be fatal.

This may not be true to all, but this is what happens most of the time. Two people, swept by passion (prematurely), will realize they can no longer handle the roller-coaster flow of emotions in a relationship. They will then decide to abandon what they thought to be “true love” simply because “it’s not working anymore”. Sad, I know. But, you know what’s worse? It’s too easy to fall in love, but it’s too hard to move on.

So, would you still like to fall in love too fast? No, of course not. You need to be extra vigilant about your feelings and make sure you won’t fall into the trap of quick commitments and quick breakups. If you truly

Does She Really Love Me

Does She Really Love MeFeelings are hard to decipher especially when it involves women. Sometimes, they appear interested but then you just realized that it’s just a friendly gesture. If you are really into the lady and you’ve been dating for quite some time now, it is only natural that you search for any evidence of her love for you. Of course, nobody wants to be misled when you have already invested too many emotions.

So how do you know if her affection towards you is truly sincere? You will sense it. Females are very expressive of what they feel. But this gets confusing when she also starts treating other guys in the same manner.

Here are some behaviors that will give you hints of what she feels.

She makes time.

Ladies are very particular with their schedule. But when you invite her for an unexpected Friday dinner, she will make it a point to show up. You are always a part of her plan. She doesn’t consider you as an option, you are a choice.

She’s comfortable around you.

A girl who loves

A Spell To Make Someone Love You

Make Someone Love YouDisagreement and misunderstanding are the result of a faulty communication. The repeated incidence may lead people to hate you or vice versa. Sometimes you decide to end all contact with each other. In case of friends or colleagues, it may not affect you. But what about someone you love? It will definitely do.

Some just need time to forget while others never do. Gifts, imploration and love letters usually will not make a difference. How to get rid of this hate against you from your loved one’s mind and heart? Could a spell to make someone love you turn things around?

Dissolve Hate

Spells have been used to dissolve negativity from a home or a person’s life since a long time ago. The same can be done with any hate your loved one feels against you. Spells can also address resentment on your side. This may get you in talking terms again. However, if you want to be more than friends, you will have to make her love you.

Create Unconditional Love

A spell to make someone love you exists in different

5 Things You Must Do When You Arrange a Surprise Birthday Party for Your Boyfriend

surprise bdayA surprise birthday party for your boyfriend is one of the best ways to make him feel really special. It’s a way to show that you love him a lot and care most for his happiness. Also you can make his friends feel jealous of him for having a wonderful girlfriend as you. Your boyfriend will be on cloud nine when he gets such a wonderful surprise from you. He will also have to arrange a surprise party for you on your birthday; this is the clue if he has not already done that. Well jokes apart but for sure arranging a surprise birthday party is not everyone’s cup of tea. You should be smart, independent, understanding, caring, possessing some basic management skills and a party enthusiast. Yes it’s a project to arrange a great party which everyone enjoys to their fullest.

Do all the arrangements keeping in mind the likes of your boyfriend as it’s a surprise for him. You might be aware of most of the things that he likes and dislikes, but if there is something that you need to know and are not sure

The Wheels Of Time

The Wheels Of TimeIn the latter stages of my life the wheels of time turn just a bit faster now. As seasons come and go, I have noticed so many things that I could have done a little differently. And, yet through all the years where I have known ecstasy, joy and jubilation there always seem to be moments of anguish, despair, suffering and woe. From caviar to humble pie, from the sublime to the absurd the wheels of time flew by.

Now, as I sit in my easy chair reminiscing perhaps I too was caught up in life’s moments for I really didn’t notice how the years rolled by. When we are young too many don’t see the passage into maturity. Many a time little did we know that the road would bend and we so often refused to see when our youth would end.

Many mistakes were made along the way and for some there will always be a price to pay. The wasted hours of wasted days sometimes it seems if we had squandered what little precious time we have. Life is too short for

Is Your Love Truly Love

Is Your Love Truly LoveMost people think they know what love is. After all, have not we all been in love before? However, I am here to argue that most people do not truly know what love is, even though they frequently use the word “love” in their conversations. In fact, most people use this word much too frequently and too freely without truly knowing what it is.

If you say that you love someone, and you feel sad, miserable, empty or lonely without him or her, then you are not truly loving the person. What you love is the fact that he or she can fulfil your needs for safety or significance.

Perhaps having this person in your life makes you feel safe or protected. Or perhaps having this person makes you feel safer than facing up to the fearful unknown. Many of those in abusive relationships stay stuck in their relationships because of this feeling of relative safety of the known abuses over the perceived fear of the unknown.

Another reason we say we love someone is because that person fulfil our need to be

The Impervious, Holy, Gracious Nature of Love

Gracious Nature of LoveWoken with thoughts I knew not where from, I decided to rise, to write them down, to endeavour to make sense of them. Here they are:

LOVE ENMESHED IN TRUTH AS IT BECOMES ITS OWN FORA OF WISDOM

Love argues a debate of reason without resorting to sarcasm, censure or name-calling, remaining ever kind and true to all sides of the debate.

And so such a thing as love is wisdom, choosing words and manner, not of decisive victory, but of truth each step of the discussion.

Loves argues a slow course, assigning its way to integrity, valuing unity of spirit, compelled by a vision of victory in the oneness of humanity. All winning or nobody winning. Nobody losing or all losing.

Love therefore has the final victory, because it thought not of victory, but because it valued truth. It loved the idea that God alone is right, that His ways alone are just, and that fairness is ever the imperative of the moment.

And truth never advances without love by its side, because that in itself would constitute a lie.

How To Manifest The Right Relationship

Manifest The Right RelationshipEveryone wants a relationship; a partner in crime so to speak but past issues, fear, commitment issues among other wrong ideas block you. You search and search yet to no avail you meet no one that seems right for you. Maybe you see other friends in relationships and often wonder what you might be doing wrong? If this is you, then please read on.

Manifesting the right relationship starts with you; your thoughts are so powerful they create your outcome. First and foremost all society rules need tossing out with the trash. Did you ever wonder who made these rules? Does it matter to you to follow them? Has your life been blissful yet? Most likely your answer is a big fat No!

Do you need a relationship manual? Not really. All you need is very simple actually. The recipe for manifesting the best relationship is to love yourself unconditionally first. Release all past issues and traumas by forgiving everybody, letting go of blame, and realizing that you created it in the first place. Be responsible for yourself. The next ingredient is patience; as healing

How to Be So Happy in Love

So Happy in LoveThere is no perfect recipe for love. You got to discover the exact blend to get the right taste. The thing is, if you are only patient and persistent enough, your deep emotion for someone will last for eternity. Like a beautiful flower, love is a feeling that should be cultivated in order to grow stronger.

Love is not all about happiness.

It’s a road full of twists and turns and if you’re lucky enough, you might find the right person that will make you enjoy the bumpy ride. Whenever you are with that person, they will leave a mark in your life that will forever be tagged as one of your happiest moments. But what happens if they decide to walk out of your life? A part of you will be lost and it will take some time for you to recover.

So you see, in love, there are no guarantees. You take risks and invest too much emotion with only a feeling to hold on to. When you fall in love, make the most out of each moment and choose happiness through

How To Make Him Love You

How To Make Him Love YouBelieve it or not, there really is a formula to make a man love you.

There are reasons you fall for certain people, and once you understand the rules of attraction, you’ll be the master of making guys fall for you.

If you’ve fallen for a man that you’d like to feel the same way about you, there are things you can do to increase his affection for you. Just keep in mind that he must have some interest in you already for these strategies to work.

Smile well and often:

It makes you look approachable, and it might actually make you happier. Find something to smile about. Think of a happy moment or amusing joke to spark a smile.

If you’ve made eye contact with the man you love, smile at him slowly, letting it spread over your face.

Be yourself:

If you’re fake, it doesn’t matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won’t really be in love with the